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Wedding Party: Is there a certain way your supposed to ask a person to be an attendant in your wedding?


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Specific way to ask?

Q. Is there a certain way your supposed to ask a person to be an attendant in your wedding?


A. There is no specific way to ask someone to be in your wedding party.  Just be sure that the person understands what is involved in accepting the responsibility (purchase of their clothing, paying for their transportation if they live out of town, etc.)  It is best to talk with the person privately, to write them a letter, or to phone if you can't get together. 
 
Begin by asking your maid of honor first.  That way, if for some reason she can't be in the wedding party, you can choose someone else rather than "promoting" one bridesmaid over the others.  Some people like to ask the maid of honor, then the two of you invite all of the bridesmaids to lunch or coffee and give each one an identical box or gift bag, that when opened, says, "I'm getting married and I would like you to be a bridesmaid."  Only do this if you know your friends well and you know that they will all be excited and respond positively. After you have chosen the ladies, you can choose the flower girl and ring bearer by asking their parents first, then talking with the children.
 
Glenna Tooman, ForeverWed.com Wedding Consultant

 

 
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