Irish Wedding Theme


The Irish theme has many things to offer, and it can often be confusing to figure out exactly where to start. Our suggestion is to narrow the focus first, and decide which elements you would most like to include in your wedding. Horseshoes, hankies, bells, flowers, or even Irish music could be a starting point in narrowing the focus of your theme. You will find ideas below to give you an idea of what is available for this theme.

 
 

Irish Weddings Ideas

  • Lucky horseshoe. Irish brides used to carry a real horseshoe for good luck. (Turned up so the luck won’t run out). You can get porcelain horseshoes which most Irish brides carry these days, or one made of fabric which is worn on the wrist.

  • Magic Hanky. This charming custom involves having the bride carry a special hanky that with a few stitches can be turned into a christening bonnet for the first baby. With a couple of snips it can be turned back into a hanky that your child can carry on his/her wedding day.

  • Make-up bells. The chime of bells is thought to keep evil spirits away, restore harmony if a couple is fighting. Also remind a couple of their wedding vows. Giving a bell as a gift has become an Irish tradition. You could also have your greeters hand out tiny bells to your guests to ring as you process. (You might want to let them know when they’re supposed to be rung - perhaps mention it in your program along with an explanation of the custom). Guests could also ring their little bells at the reception in lieu of clinking glasses.

  • Irish Dancers. Consider hiring a group of Irish dancers to hand out your programs before the ceremony. Dressed in their full regalia, it would add a wonderful touch of pageantry and color. They could also dance at the reception later. We did this at my daughter’s reception and it was a major hit.

  • Music. There’s so much wonderful Irish music available, you’ll have no problems in finding appropriate selections for both the ceremony and the reception. The difficulty will be in deciding which pieces to play!

  • The Irish Wedding Song. Very popular at contemporary Irish weddings. We had two friends sing this at my daughter's reception while the newlyweds cut the cake. (Afterwards I thought we should have had the lyrics typed up and placed on the tables so that everyone could join in).

  • Flowers. In the old days, many Irish brides wore a wreath of wildflowers in their hair; they also carried them in bouquets. For my daughter's wedding, our florist designed gorgeous bouquets that included a flower called Bells of Ireland. In Wales, brides carried live myrtle and gave a sprig to each bridesmaid which they planted. If it grew, the bridesmaid would marry within the year. If you're planning a more general Celtic celebration, this might be worth considering.

Portents and omens:

  • A fine day meant good luck, especially if the sun shone on the bride. If you’re a Roman Catholic, one way to make certain that it won’t rain is to put a statue of the Infant of Prague outside the church before your ceremony.

  • It was unlucky to marry on a Saturday.

  • Those who married in harvest would spend all their lives gathering.

  • A man should always be the first to wish joy to the bride, never a woman.

  • It was lucky to hear a cuckoo on the wedding morning, or to see three magpies.

  • To meet a funeral on the road meant bad luck and if there was a funeral procession planned for that day, the wedding party always took a different road.

  • The wedding party should always take the longest road home from the church.

  • It was bad luck if a glass or cup were broken on the wedding day.

  • A bride and groom should never wash their hands in the same sink at the same time it’s courting disaster if they do.

  • It was said to be lucky if you married during a ‘growing moon and a flowing tide’.

  • When leaving the church, someone must throw an old shoe over the bride’s head so she will have good luck.

  • If the bride’s mother-in-law breaks a piece of wedding cake on the bride’s head as she enters the house after the ceremony, they will be friends for life.

Reception and Beyond:

  • Bunratty Meade is a honey wine that’s served at the Bunratty Castle medieval banquet. It’s from a recipe based on the oldest drink in Ireland and if you’ve never tasted it, it’s well worth trying. In the old days, it was consumed at weddings because it was thought that it promoted virility. (If a baby was born nine months after the wedding, it was attributed to the mead!) Couples also drank it from special goblets for a full month following the wedding, which is supposedly where we get the word honeymoon. This was to protect the couple from the fairies coming to spirit the bride away.

  • Ancient custom: In the old days, couples ate salt and oatmeal at the beginning of their reception: Each of them took three mouthfuls as a protection against the power of the evil eye. Also, when a couple is dancing, the bride can't take both feet off the floor because the fairies will get the upper hand. Fairies love beautiful things and one of their favorites is a bride. There's many an Irish legend about brides being spirited away by the little people! For the same reason, it's bad luck for a bride to wear green. I’ve also heard that it’s bad luck for anyone to wear green at an Irish wedding - but I think it really only applies to the bride. It's also bad luck for a bride or the groom to sing at their own wedding.

  • The top tier of your wedding cake should be an Irish whiskey cake which is saved for celebrating the christening of your first born.

  • I’ve also heard of another custom which just came to my attention and will be included in the next edition: a bottle of champagne is saved from the reception so that it can be used to toast the child at the christening. This is called "wet the baby’s head"

 



 

 

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