Keys to Keeping a
Marriage Glowing
Reprinted with permission from Christian Woman Magazine.
The key to growth in a marriage relationship can be found
in what is called "The Four C's"--commitment, caring, communication and
celebration.
Commitment
This is not just a commitment to stay together in the relationship, but it is a commitment
to grow in that relationship. Remember, if something isn't growing, it's usually dying.
Caring
This is a deep, abiding concern for each other in every area of life. It includes the
physical, the emotional and the spirtual, and will be evidenced by your active
participation in each other's lives.
Communication
This is not just being able to talk with one another, but the ability to express freely
all the areas of your heart and thought. It includes being able to resolve conflict in a
creative way, utilizing it to help your relationship grow.
Celebration
Clearing away the dust and debris so romance can shine once again is part of celebration.
Jesus said He came that we might have not just life, but life abundantly. Keeping the
love-light glowing is an important part of that abundant life and a valid reason for
celebration.
"Will all this really work?" Yes. But don't
expect it to be immediately effective or even easy. Start doing some positive things and
then keep on doing them. Your spouse will respond. And it is just possible that your
spouse will begin to think up some of their own special things.
Galatians 6:9 tells us to "be not weary in
well-doing." That includes being the one to keep the light of love constantly
dusted and clear of blocking debris. The rewards will come and will be well worth all of
the efforts you put forth to "keep the love-light glowing."
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