the father of the groom often gets largely overlooked at a wedding. He walks in
behind his wife and takes his seat and that is largely it. One way to help the
father stand out is for him to wear a tuxedo, like the father of the bride,
though he doesn't have to. It is also appropriate for the grandfathers to wear
tuxedos if they choose to do so, but again they don't have to, though they
should wear suits.
In your case, if the step-father wears a tuxedo and your husband doesn't, the
step-father may be mistaken for the groom's father. Therefore, it would be a
good idea for your husband to also rent a tux. He should wear one similar to
that to be worn by the bride's father.
Best wishes to you.
Glenna Tooman, ForeverWed.com Wedding Consultant
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