Spiritual Unity Candle Ceremony
Performing over 50 unique weddings per year, Joyce Gioia specializes in
providing couples with very spiritual, customized wedding ceremonies.
Incorporating as much or as little religion as each couple dictates, she works
with them to design and craft ceremonies that are a reflection of how they feel
about God and each other.
Now, we're going to engage in a ceremony of spiritual symbolism. Ancient sages
tell us that for each of us, there is a candle, a symbol of our own inner light,
but that no one can kindle his or her own candle. Each of us needs someone else
to kindle it for us.
When two people fall in love, they kindle each other's candles, creating great
light and joy and glorious expectations.
Now, [Name] and [Name], I'd like you to remember when it was in your
relationship that you first realized you were truly in love and wanted to spend
the rest of your lives together. And holding that thought . . .
[Name], take this candle, symbol of the inner light in [Name], light it by the
eternal light, with the dedication to rekindle it again and again, whenever
necessary. And [Name], take this candle, symbol of the inner light in [Name],
light it by the eternal light, with the dedication to rekindle it again and
again, whenever necessary.
With these candles, we can see how to achieve a beautiful marriage. In your
marriage, you will try to bring these lights, the symbols of yourselves, closer
and closer to each other, until they become [join the flames] one great torch of
light; a radiant symbol of love, joy, peace and harmony. [hold flames together]
This is the mystery of the union two becoming one.
Yet, it is vitally important to remember that there are always really two
[divide the flames] in a marriage, each with his or her own desires, yearnings,
dreams and wishes. And these must be respected and responded to with great love,
with great compassion and with genuine tenderness.
We know that it is the prayer of your beloved, as it is the prayer of each of us
here, that you will continuously light these candles of love, so that there will
always be light and joy, peace and harmony in your hearts and in your home.
Please kiss each other.
About the Author
Dr. Joyce Gioia performs all kinds of weddings, including Catholic, Protestant,
Jewish, Interfaith, Co-Officiated, Humanist, Native American, Civil, Buddhist,
Moslem and any combination thereof. Her multicultural wedding ceremonies are
often enhanced by her competency in other languages. For more info, email
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