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When you love someone,
you do not love them all the time. in
exactly the same way, from moment to
moment. It is an impossibility. It
is even a lie to pretend to. And yet,
this is exactly what most of us
demand. We have so little faith in
the ebb and flow of life, of love , of
relationships. We leap at the flow of
time and resist in terror its ebb. We
are afraid it will never return. We
insist on permanency, on duration, on
continuity; when the only continuity
possible in life, as in love, is in
growth, in fluidity in freedom. The
only real security is not owning or
possessing, not in demanding or
expecting, not in hoping, even.
Security in a relationship lies
neither in looking back to what it was
, nor forward to what it might be, but
living in the present and accepting it
as it is now. For relationships, too
must be like islands. One must accept
them for what they are here and now,
within their limits islands surrounded
and interrupted by the sea,
continuously visited and abandoned by
the tides. Once must accept the
serenity of the winged life, ebb and
flow, of intermittency
The web of marriage
is made by propinquity, in the day to
day living side by side, looking
outward and working outward in the
same direction. It is woven in space
and in time of the substance of life
itself.
When the wedding
march sounds the resolute approach,
the clock no longer ticks, it tolls
the hour.... The figures in the aisle
are no longer individuals. They
symbolize the human race. |
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